Showing posts with label Morning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Morning. Show all posts

Monday, December 14, 2015

My color is #PINKA


The best memories I have of studying at the Cathedral & John Connon School, were of the numerous activities we had from day one of a school year all the way to the last - so apart from the studying and social service students had to do, they also did dramatics, music, art, debates, elocution (English & Hindi), basketball, gymnastics, throw-ball, track events, cricket, tennis, rugby, badminton, chess and the MARATHON ... simply superlative opportunities for the students to hone their respective skills. And as a student then, I take pride in saying, I took part in most of the above activities except for tennis, cricket and rugby; and of all of them, the toughest but the most fun was the marathon we ran amidst the wilderness for our respective houses (mine was Barham) to win the big chunk of points that would result in the glorious house cup at the end of the year. That was 33 years ago ...

Early this morning I broke routine and jumped out of my snug fleece blanket to wake up at 3.30 AM, got dressed, had a banana and some almonds and at 5 AM sharp drove with Aparna, Priyanka, Lata, Meenu, Nishita and Lipika to Bandra Kurla Complex to be there at 5.30 AM. My excitement was not unlike that of a child, as I had registered myself for the 10 km marathon at #pinkathon Mumbai 2015; an event to encourage women to make the choice of an active healthy lifestyle & by example, inspire their loved ones to do the same. This was a race for women and this morning 11,000+ women stood tall with me to do their bit in their own unique way to set an example to their families and friends and above all to themselves. 


Nostalgia and mixed emotions ran through my body as we were flagged off from the starting point at 6.30 AM amidst DJ music playing on the huge speakers and women dancing the Zoomba; the brand ambassador Milind Soman looking charismatic and appealing as ever in his salt and pepper hair waving and wishing the squealing women luck and assuring them that he would be waiting for them at the finish line; the MC screaming instructions while shutterbugs desperately clicked the action and paparazzi did their spiel with their backs to the runners; volunteers waved flags shouting 'Go Pinka go' as the Naval band played their drums and trumpets with much gusto and the time mapping machines beeped as each girl passed it ... and to add to all this cacophony and jamboree were of course the Pinka's - the pink sisters ... the 11000+ GIRLS who were screaming cheers of excitement, poking fun at each other, giggling, clicking quick selfies, dancing to the beats, then walking, then jogging and finally once they were out of the 100 m noisy corridor at the start, the real running.

And run they did, as did I! The streets of BKC were pink this morning with girls of every size, age, social status and religion. There were girls who were 75+ and under 5; girls wearing hip sports shoes to girls running in chappals and bare feet; girls in trendy and very sexy sportswear to girls in saris, salwar kameez, hijaab's and pink burkhas; girls with perfect fitness to fat girls and very skinny girls; girls in corporate Tshirts (Kotak Bank, Nomura, ICICI Bank, KPMG etc.) and girls dressed in the white event Tshirt; girls with earphones and girls with music playing on their phone loudspeakers some playing soulful Atif Aslam music, Mika and retro 80’s hits of the like of Bryan Adams, MJ; girls seriously running and girls ambling along as they clicked selfies, photos and videos at every milestone; girls who were young mothers walking with their babies strapped into a shoulder harness to a girl with a prosthetic limb and a girl with crutches; girls with their boyfriends on roaring bikes showing off their unnecessarily dangerous skills and girls with a boy running along with them pushing them to go on; girls running alone and girls running in groups; girls silently running and girls chatting ... errr ... about this and that and that and this, and then and now and now and then, and who and what and what and who and … God alone knows what not else!

Although I have been walking as a daily form of exercise, this was my first run after so long, so my run went something like this … Jogging – Running - Slow jogging - walking – attempt to run and back to walking – slow jogging and so on. And hence without having a choice in the matter, I was privy to a variety of conversations of the enthusiastic Pinkas :) ...

"I'm already tired"
"Seriously ... and its not even one kilometer! Shit ya ... what if I faint!? Aye you better take my photo at the finish line where it is written 10 km okay." 
"Arey why bother, lets take a photo of you lying at the 1 km milestone ... we'll add a zero for you. Itni toh dosti nibhayengey" (laughter and backslapping)

"We are looking best in these red Tshirts yaar", said one of the Kotak girls. 
"Yes we are the best."

"Yaar signal nahin hai"
"Tera Vodafone hai na ... Idea laga ... dekh mera network full hai"
"Chal selfie lete hain - dekh 1 KM aagaya - FB pe mujhe tag kar"

The KPMG girls bursting into a sudden sprint "Come on yaar, stop walking ... run run run" giggles as they all followed suit with their ponytails swishing behind them

"Skuze me .. can you please take our photo?"
"Sure"
"Please take a full length"

An middle aged more than plump Pinka to the volunteers at the water station
"Koi buscuits nahin hai kya?"
"You will get at the finish line maam"
"Tch .. arrey but mujhe abhi chahiye na -- chakkar aaraha hai"
"Maam aap please baith jao"
"Here have this sweet" said an onlooking Pinka
"Oh ... thank you"

"Modi ka latest video dekha tuney? Arrey awesome hai" "Nahin, bhej mujhe - baad mein dekhoongi - tch phone theek se charge hi nahin hua ... aur selfie kheench kheench ke battery aur bhi marr gayi hai" giggles

"Salman aur kaun ... " 
"Mera toh Shahrukh ... only shahrukh - Dilwale first day first show jaoongi" 
"Bol toh aise rahi hai jaise tera boyfriend hai"
"Haan toh hai na... tu jal matt khali peeli"

"Mama godii"
"No darling no godii ... see Pooja and her mama have already gone so far - you want to come first na? Come on walk fast"

"...aur compound ekdum mast hai toh roz walk ho jaati hai"
"Lucky yaar - apne yahan to chalne ke bhi waandey hain"
"Toilet .. chal na susu karna hai mujhe"
"Tch .. phir se? Chal jaldi kar yaar"
"Do minute baba"

"You are the only boy I am seeing in this race - very good!" said a Pinka to a young boy running alongside a young Pinka
"Thank you ... actually I'm just with her - to encourage"
His Pinka girl giggled 
"You are still a boy only okay"
"Ya .. so? ... I am a boy ... come on run faster!"

"Where is this Kamala ya" 
"God alone knows"
"Has she gone ahead?"
"I think she got left behind at the turning"
"Should we wait?"
"No no ... we'll meet her after the race"

"You have been running for one hour and twenty minutes, you have completed 8 km and burned 1500+ calories"
"Hey what is that?"
"Oh that is my phone - its an APP called Runtastic, that tracks progress of my walk/run routine - You can download it too"
"Cool"

... and so on :)

Until 6 km I was doing fine, but after that my body started dragging itself and I had to really push myself to keep going walking, jogging, walking quick spurts of running for what seemed like an age and I finally saw the last 100 m mark. The cacophony began again - C'mon you can do it - its almost over - Pink Pinka Pinka - Awesome job - keep it going - last few steps - claps - more claps - naval band playing - screaming MC cheering us on - music blaring in the speakers - shutterbugs contouring themselves to get the best possible angles ... my 10 km run finally came to a close at 8.05 am - it had taken me 1 hour and 35 minutes to complete the race and I was pooped to the last bone in my body, but my heart and mind were rejoicing at the fact that I had finally pushed myself to complete the race and I believe despite the chatter and ambling and clicking so did the rest of the 11000+ pink sisters. 

As promised, Milind Soman was on stage in all his glory ... prizes were distributed to the winners, dancers came on stage to celebrate with the girls as they danced along. The only photo booth had a thick snaking line so I decided to ditch it and stood in line for my medal, certificate and refreshments as I stretched my limbs to avoid breaking into cramps. As I was slowly moving forward I surveyed the milieu of girls around me and saw tired but smiling and happy faces discussing their respective runs. And then I saw the little girl who wanted godii finally in her father's godii as her mother animatedly narrated their experience to him ... and when he looked on with pride at his two special girls I couldn't help but smile ... 

It was my turn finally and I took my refreshments bag, which included a tiny bottle of RAW fresh juice, digestive biscuits and a Kiwi ... AND a Pinkathon medal!?$#@ (which unfortunately was the only disappointment as there was no distinction from one race' medal to another) ... I wore my medal, drank the juice, chomped on some of the biscuits and slowly limped back to the car to get homeward bound with a firm resolve to be back again!



Monday, December 10, 2007

Subah ho gayi mami!!


My mornings begin with a reluctant hauling myself out of bed with expected difficulty and mindlessly heading bleary eyed to the loo only to sleep some more on the pot while my inners awake to natures call; and it is only after about thirty minutes of this blissful mid-sleep awakening that I actually awaken to my calling duties of THE RESPONSIBLE WOMAN OF THE HOUSE' BIG MORNING ROUTINE!!

The BMR begins with me downing a glass of Methi water with soaked bitter Methi seeds floating into my mouth and me ruminating over them while trying hard to hold back throwing up instead (Methi seeds are bitter even after being soaked overnight and take forever to chew into a state that can be swallowed -- sigh but they are so called HEALTHY and hence the endurance of misery), downing some more water to wash away the after taste; fixing chai for my husband in the annoying steel Dekchi, which has survived my daily vows of throwing it out every morning thanks to the messy sputtering of millions of chai droplets around the cup while pouring the hot chai out; cutting and making a sabzi in the everlasting Kadhai and making rotis for the kids; fixing breakfast for the kids, which is either of the following - paranthas for which I get awarded a slurp/beam, boiled eggs for which I get an ugly face as if I am the worst mother on earth, crisp butter sada dosas which are appreciated with a smile, chocos which they love the most more because they lovingly chuck them at each other while eating -- several pieces of chocos lie victim on the floor after they have left for school and lastly a scrambled egg for Roshni and an omelete for Raunaq combo - so the kids have either of the above as the main breakfast + an Elchi Banana + a Large Mug of Milk with Chocolate Horlicks -- I love playing Mommy and my poor kids have now suffered this forced big breakfast eating too long to complain any more :); packing their lunch boxes with rotis in foil, sabzi in a separate container, spoon and a paper napkin; filling their bottles; packing Raunaq' snack box with some nick-nacks; meanwhile in the middle of all this flurry the beds are made, the milk is boiled, some frantic instructions are given, some signs are done on important yet perpetually ignored till the last minute documents, some irritation is expressed and last but not the least quick hugs and kisses are exchanged before the kid's exit happens for the day at 7.45AM. Once the kids have left, I get into my sexy (I would like to believe) fitness gear and leave the house for the next one hour during which I either go the Gym where I work on my upper / lower body / abs with weights or just go for a long walk in the Garden followed up with some yoga like Alom Vilom, Kapal Bharati, breathing, eye exercises in the sun. This is truly the best part of my day -- I enjoy it the most as it is the only time that I dedicate to myself unconditionally. 

After I return, I fix breakfast for Farrukh and me. I usually read the papers while eating breakfast and then get ready for office. Once our great Househelp, Jayshree arrives; we depend on her completely for ALL the rest of the endless work that happens in a home; as I leave for office.

Well today was not like the usual mornings as our friendly neighbourhood milkman got delayed and so did not arrive before Farrukh left for his morning walk which is at 6.15 AM. My morning alarm is set for 6.30AM and even these extra 15mins are much desired bliss and I hate trading them for anything. However, this morning just after Farrukh left, our SHRILLING LOUD doorbell rang. I ignored it knowing it was Azad (he's the milkman) and praying that he will leave the milk packets on the mat outside. But the bell rang again. I hauled myself out of bed and staggered with closed eyes to open the door. "Kya karte ho Azad, Double Ghanti kyon mara tumne? Bola hai na ki disturb hota hai". He said, "Madam, watchman ne bola hai ki doodh chori hota hai to jab tak aap khologey nahin tab tak ghanti marney ka" I grumbled and stretched out my hand for the milk and I receive in my hand only one small packet of milk. I tried to open my eyes to the bright light in the corridor and said "Arrey yeh kya sirf 1/2 litre?? What about the balance 1 litre?" "Sorry Madam aaj doodh kam hai kyonki doosra building mein chori ho gaya to mujhe doodh unko dena pada"

Drat ... when a morning begins like this everything goes for a tizzy as my blissful half an hour on the pot ends up being hurried and nervous thinking of - what will I give the kids, how will Farrukh have his chai??? Today I was worried as I had set curd last night with the balance milk and it was clearly not possible to have the kids share less than half a litre of milk!!

I went through my BMR with a frown on my face, growled at the kids and Farrukh for something totally unimportant, gave the kids their boiled eggs for which I promtly got ugly faces in return "Mom I hate boiled eggs" said Raunaq at which I further growled between clenched teeth "HAVE IT -- its the healthiest part of your breakfast" and then added while hurrying back for the kitchen - "Sorry there's no milk for you guys today". There was a unanimous YEEEAY ... Hey no problem at all Mom... its okay really!! Their hugs were warmer and their kisses were with a smile on their faces when they left for school... SIGH I love being loved by my babies ... I obviously have Azad to thank for this mornings display of affection from them. 

Like they say in the larger picture of life everything fits in well!!

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